Heather and I are talking about how we handle endings.  Endings are less dramatic than we thinkMedicine can manage a lot of the physical distressEmotional support can help you find peaceGrief and guil...

Heather and I are talking about the value of reflection.  Looking back can bring new meaning Looking back is integrating new ideasReflection can be derailed by novelty Heather and I want...

Heather and I are talking about challenges leaders face.  OverworkAvoiding bad applesRecovery timeHeather and I would love to hear about some of the common challenges you face. 

Heather and I are talking about self regulation and technology.  People are persuaded by digital technology Technology and connection can reduce problem behaviorGreater self regulation reduces problematic...

Heather and I are talking about picking tomatoes and choosing great working environmentsTricks for choosing can help or confuseTomatoes are designed to look ready, not necessarily taste readyDelayed feedback makes ...

Heather and I are talking about struggling to be consistentA tool not a testInfrastructureFrequency of consistency first, volume intensity comes secondHeather and I want to hear about tricks you have t...

Heather and I are talking about supervisees feeling overconfident.  Reds flags impact assessmentRed flags can be taken out of contextRed flag signal strength confuses assessmentHeather and I would...

Heather and I are talking about when it is time to break the rules.  Adaptive thinking enables innovation Safe spaces and open-ended challengesSmart rule breaking solves problemsHeather and I...

Heather and I are talking about when it is time to intervene.  Timing of interventions impact outcomeProblems can be avoided by being proactiveDifferent strategies for different timesHeather and I...

Heather and I are talking about self disclosure in counseling and supervision Sharing through technology creates a sense of closenessWhen you stop sharing it can create conflictSharing can create digital drama...

Heather and I are talking about applying Japanese wisdom to counseling and supervisionConnect with othersAppreciate the small thingsIntuitive understandingAppreciate quiet momentsHeather and I...

Heather and I are talking about using storytelling in supervisionCreate meaningFind purposeEnhances impactMeaning plus purpose equals lasting happiness

Heather and I are talking about interactions with other intelligent lifeformsThere are intelligent lifeforms all around usContact can be life changing How do we fit new experiences into our practice<...

Heather and I are talking about the effect of cynical attitudesLimits creativity and growthBlocks meaningful changeName the feeling behind cynicismReplace cynicism and find stronger ideas, real contributio...

Heather and I are talking about the relationship between being bored and burnoutLearning and novelty experiences are necessary Stay in comfort zone or venture out?Our brains need exploration and experiences&nb...

Heather and I are talking about when we talk to ourselvesWe can problem solve without needing new informationIncreases motivationSelf affirmingHeather and I want to know about some of the things you ta...

Heather and I are talking about how we use To-Do ListsConstantly thinking about to dos is stressfulSame stress thinking about to do as doing themShift to done lists, plan to completeHeather and I would...

Heather and I are talking about complainersPeople are complainersThis is not endearingComplaints can guide positive changeHeather and I would want to hear about a complaint that you turned into magic, ...

Heather and I are talking about titlesSometimes have been given to usTitles can minimize our workNew titles fit corporate or cultural changesWe can change thisHeather and I would want to hear ...

Heather and I are talking about throwing in the towelChasing goalsGiving up is a choiceLet it GoHeather and I would want to hear about goals you gave up on and how you celebrated. 

Heather and I are talking about making the most out of a NOStrong emotions reveal valuesRefusing things as they are leads to creativity Refusal moves us to actionHeather and I would love to hear a...

Heather and I are talking about beginnings and endings. Set the toneLasting impressionBeginnings and endings shape the futureHeather and I would love to hear about some of your favorite beginn...

Heather and I are talking about trusting yourself. Trust yourself before others will trust youSincerity, reliability, competenceYou can grow trust in yourselfHeather and I would love to hear about...

 Heather and I are talking about the impact of artificial intelligence on counseling. We lose the beauty of human imperfectionInconvenience allows space for creativityImperfections and creativity k...

Heather and I are talking about feeling like we are running out of time. What is your mindset about time?Time is valuableLearn to be in the momentHeather and I would love to hear about ways th...